The first SGA I read that gave me the warm fuzzies (thats how I know its romantic *g*) was the checkmate_verse. I felt really guilty, but I'm all better now. Up to that point there was sex and drama and fun and crack and angst but not really romance.

I really didn't notice the lack until you started writing so much romance; canon John and Rodney - the closest either has ever been to romance is when they sneaked peaks at women's magazines because somebody told them it would improve their dating techniques.

WMHB is the pinnacle, because really how does one top a first date on Mars? Tangled Destinies is really close though.

Is it cheating on the romance scale when your partner can read your mind and emotional state?