Avoidance

Jul. 20th, 2011 01:51 pm
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[personal profile] keiramarcos
I'd like to write a full on threesome (John/Miko/Rodney) fic. I've actually wanted to write it for a long time -- before I even got into the whole slash writing thing. Why haven't I? Well, I already get a lot of flak from people who wish I didn't write slash and I guess I'd rather not hear crap from people who read slash but hate threesome and/or het fic. I guess I'd rather not get smacked at from both ends of a whip. Which is a pretty startling realization that I can probably blame on my therapist. I don't think I realized the full extent of my avoidance on this issue until recently.

This crosses my mind because I was reading through some feedback offered on a fic and quite a few people admitted liking it until the fic became a threesome and then they were all up in arms about it. It pissed me off for the writer and I'd have said something if it was a fandom I participate in. I'm all about showing my ass after all but I'd rather not wade into a new fandom to do it. People in the SGA fandom probably expect me me to be a bitch and I figure there is no need to let everyone in the Harry Potter fandom in on that fact just yet.

Of course, considering some of the emails I exchanged with a few readers regarding Birth of the Serpent King and my inability to measure how much I didn't give a fuck what they thought about my overwhelming use of cliches (which was on purpose BTW), or the characterization of Snape or the level of maturity I slapped on Ron Weasley or how it was Harry/Draco and they would have much preferred that it be Harry/Ron or Harry/Hermoine because I just "destroyed" the Golden Trio with my fic. Well, they are just LUCKY I didn't indulge in my most favorite cliches: Evil Weasleys and Dark Lord Dumbledore. LMAO.

It might horrify some of you to know that originally I had every intention of having John collar Miko in Ties That Bind but by part three the dynamic for a threesome just didn't work for me as a writer. That is really the only reason it didn't happen despite my desire not to get bitched at from die hard slash readers.

It pisses me off a little because I don't even normally let people who PAY to read my work influence me like this.

BAH.

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Date: 2011-07-20 07:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] admiralandrea.livejournal.com
Any chance of a link to that Anunnaki Series, please? I've not heard of it before and you've intrigued me now!
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Date: 2011-07-20 07:05 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] kaleecat
I can understand the avoidance, and the annoyance for the reasons behind it. Too bad there isn't a magic filter for idiots. You flat out said the pairing and the cliche happy from the start of Serpent King. I for one love the fic, and have read it several times. There's something gleeful about taking off with the cliches and making them better and snarky in the fic.

I've seen the bitching about becoming a threesome in reviews on one of my all time fave, a brilliant story, HP fics. I don't get it. There was no way it couldn't be a threesome--the other couple is established and wonderful, and Harry organically becomes part of it over time. And, again, from the start the threesome is stated.

I think a John/miko/Rodney scene would be interesting. I loved the platonic sensuality of the pampering scene in Ties.

Date: 2011-07-20 07:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kraymond24.livejournal.com
Do you mind linking the HP fic you are talking about? I am interested after what you said about it.

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Date: 2011-07-20 07:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nephir.livejournal.com
I've personally understood why readers feel they have the right to bitch out an author over their stories (characters and motivation, not basic grammar etc.)...all I can eve think of its Kathy Bates in Misery...
Write what you want, I'll read it happily. If I don't care for it I generally keep my opinion to myself and trend to squeal over the stuff I love.
I love your TtB universe so much I loaded it on my gay bffs ipas when he headed to Europe for vacation last year so he could read it as well.

Date: 2011-07-20 07:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] qzee.livejournal.com
I would love to read a John/Miko/Rodney fic from you. I can easily see Miko watching John and Rodney and going, "okay, I have had ENOUGH, I'm taking things in my own hands now." And proceeding to do so by leading them around by the balls.

That or her and Rodney cooperating in an effort to get John to relax. Maybe with Rodney browbeating John to let them spoil him. And then Miko and Rodney seducing him through dinner and then leaving him a boneless, very satisfied, John Sheppard puddle of goo.

So... please write a threesome? Pretty please? With an orange fleece jacket (or cherry) on top?

Date: 2011-07-20 07:12 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] desertpoet
Therapy does lead to some interesting revelations doesn't it?

It is totally understandable. Having people attack you constantly is tiring and infuriating. Why would you want that?

That said. I thought the scene in Sentinels of Atlantis where Miko imagined a threesome with Rodney and John was full of extremely hot awesomeness. So if you decided to write a threesome story for them anyway I'd be very excited!

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Date: 2011-07-20 09:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tiamet.livejournal.com
"I thought the scene in Sentinels of Atlantis where Miko imagined a threesome with Rodney and John was full of extremely hot awesomeness. So if you decided to write a threesome story for them anyway I'd be very excited!"

DITTO!

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Date: 2011-07-20 07:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] odinsvoid.livejournal.com
You know, and maybe it's because I'm not a people person despite a lifetime gathering in my sphere a boatload of acquaintances, but I just don't get why people will read something if it's not their bag of tea only to turn around and blame the author for pulling them into their evil web. Seriously. Threesomes aren't my thing,that said if you wrote it I'd probably read, and I have no doubt enjoy it 'cause you're good like that.

On a side note I totally love evil Dumledore/weasleys fic. Soooo bad but sooo good too.

Date: 2011-07-20 07:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quiltedlives.livejournal.com
I totally blame Keira for pulling me into her evil web, every time I read Ties That Bind, Sentinels of Atlantis,........
every single time! LOL!

Please I'd love the high quality pdf

Date: 2011-07-20 07:20 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] winterhart
there will always be the naysayers

Re: Please I'd love the high quality pdf

Date: 2011-07-20 10:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] insanity--inc.livejournal.com
Drive-by icon love!!!! ::Huggles Methos:::

Date: 2011-07-20 07:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hab318princess.livejournal.com
that's something to look forward to then... I've got a one off threesome (Jack/Toshiko/Ianto) in Bound Together - for me it just felt right and fits with the story but I'm also sure that at least one of my readers (diehard Janto) will have a coronary but as she'd annoyed me with wanting Ianto to be permanently punished - which that relationship is NOT about
I've had a long term threesome sneak up on me in it but as they're not main characters I didn't really think about it

I think I know which fic you refer to re the threesome feedback and it was a surprise to me but it certainly didn't spoil it... made me rethink my expectations of relationships and why I was expecting a m/m couple only - the above scenes had been written before reading the story and it widened my horizons as to the richness of relationships

and now I will shut up :D

Date: 2011-07-20 07:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cala-jane.livejournal.com
....

O.O

Damn you! I told myself I don't have the time to catch up on this monster of a series.... I really don't! *glares at you*

I don't really have to sleep... so it's okay if I go read it now... mhmmmmm J/T/I

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Date: 2011-07-20 07:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cala-jane.livejournal.com
I'ma slasher and I read threesomes. In fact M/F/M is my favourite flavor :D So, you know, if you write one, I will probably read it and reread it as much as I do with Ties that bind right now :)

As for the Serpent King... Why are people whining about all the cliches? There was a note about the intentional use of every cliche in the book last time I've read it (which is Monday :P), so their complains are invalid and you should do what I do with students that email me questions about matters that are answered on the website: send back the link and label them as idiots unworthy of your time *firm nod*

I also agree with [livejournal.com profile] odinsvoid: people are weird if they see the fic isn't their cup of tea and read it anyway. I mean I have a mouse with back button installed and I use it constantly. It's not that difficult to click away from a fic you don't enjoy.

The only accusation I feel is valid when sending a feedback to a writer is "OMG why isn't there more of this? I am begging you write more! You have to or I will DIE!"

Date: 2011-07-21 09:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mchanjchild.livejournal.com
My reply was going to be basically identical to yours. I really don't understand some people in fandom. Warnings are there for a reason.

On the subject of threesomes - a couple of years ago I was on and organized tour *coughContikicough* and had one of the other girls on tour ask to share our room as there was a threesome happening in hers. My roommate and her both looked at me rather oddly when I asked who the other bloke was..... ;)

<3

M

Date: 2011-07-20 07:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] admiralandrea.livejournal.com
I'll add to the hell yes, please write that threesome song that's going on in here! *g* I love how you write Miko and I'd really enjoy seeing her and Rodney gang up on John ;-)

Date: 2011-07-20 07:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kraymond24.livejournal.com
You know what is funny about your HP fic is that I didn't realize that it was a cliche until I tried finding other fics where Harry becomes gentry. Then I realized that it is a cliche that is usually very poorly and painfully done. It made me appreciate your story even more.

As for threesomes, they work when the characters are genuinely in love with each other. It seems in some of your established verses, John and Rodney are in such love with each other, that we can't imagine that they would include someone else on a permanent basis.

Date: 2011-07-20 07:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] azurehart.livejournal.com

I don't understand people that bitch so much about pairings they don't like. It's a big internet, I'm sure there are other places where they can go to indulge in their OTP all they want.

While I do have favorite pairings, I'll read almost anything as long as it's well written. That's how I've been introduced to new fandoms and genres; a favorite author wrote something new, and I liked what I read.

It's certainly happened with your writing. You've had me reading het (and trying to find more John S./Laura C. fic), and reading BDSM even though those aren't things I usually read. I'm well aware that the back button is there for a reason, and if I find something isn't to my taste, I'll use it.

Date: 2011-07-20 07:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elaiel.livejournal.com
Threesomes are cool. Go for it. Write what you fancy! If people don't like it, they should go of and read something they like, not bitch about it.

Date: 2011-07-20 07:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sunryder.livejournal.com
First, your Harry Potter fic was the first HP I ever read (nothing about the fanfic really appealed to me before then), and it was so wonderful that I have completely devolved into a H/D shipper and I now troll through H/D stories looking for something anywhere near as good. (Be proud to know that it's a very short list.)

Second, I consider most of your works only secondarily dirty and primarily about the people. People that you craft so perfectly that you've made me want to go back to every story I've ever written and do better so that readers will adore my characters and my universes just as much as I've adored yours. Whatever complaints people may have about the slash, or the cliches, or the threesomes, just goes to show that they're missing the point. The only reason your stories are quite so smokin' hot is that we adore the characters as you've written them and we want them to have the happiness you're giving them in your works. (Well... perhaps not the *only* reason they're hot, but that's beside the point.)

Third, I've always considered a story worth writing if it will mean something to at least one reader. They and I might be the only two people on the planet who think the story was anything good, (and believe you me, that's happened to me before) but at least I made them happy. You've got *so* *many* people who adore your words, so your measure of success is probably much greater than mine, as it deserves to be, but I want you to know, no matter what you write, at least one person will always, ALWAYS adore it.

Date: 2011-07-21 11:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] clairshadows.livejournal.com
Hi,
Just ditto to everything you've just said and emphatically regarding the first paragraph (second week of being a die hard H/D shipper here). You haven't happened to find a Draco is a Veela story where pairing with Harry *isn't* required to either keep Draco alive or under control have you? This is also a blantant plea/beg for recs of all varities of H/D stories.

Date: 2011-07-20 08:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hellbells101.livejournal.com
I can understand the desire to avoid hassle. However, personally I'd be intrigued to read the threesome fic if you write it.

Date: 2011-07-20 08:29 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] chaoscelt.livejournal.com
I love threesome fics. Esp. if they are m/m/f ones. lol As they say been there, done that and got the t-shirt! Write what you want, I'll read it and love it!! I know I won't be the only one, the rest can just bugger off.

Date: 2011-07-20 08:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] auntbijou.livejournal.com
You know, there's no reason you can't write a John/Miko/Rodney threesome as an alternate or a "what might have happened..." for your TTB arc. I'm just sayin'...

I've gotten to where I don't read the comments any more when I'm reading fic, though I am trying to be better about actually commenting. There are people out there who have their little ol' hearts just set in stone on certain pairings, and if you write something that knocks against that pairing, well... you just must be the devil incarnate to even think it, much less write it. I'm not sure why this is, because... why? Seriously, why? They're fictional characters, the whole damn point of fanfiction is to play with them, shake things up, or write it the way you see it. So what if you give the characters back rumpled, reeking of sex, and with silly grins on their faces?

But I don't read comments much any more because I end up getting cranky and bitchy and grumpy, and if I get riled up enough, I'll feel the need to write something tart and to the point, and... yeah, not really into feeding wank trolls, unless I'm pissed off about something else, and then I look on it as a recreational sport. But other than offering support and praise to writers I enjoy, I don't go there. It's bad for my stomach. And vocabulary. Whoa, I'm in a mood, aren't I? Perhaps I should warn the kids to run for the hills while they can.

Personally? I have no trouble with threesomes. Reading them, I mean. Okay, that's it, you've sent me into a mental haze with that one.

Have I told you lately that I absolutely adore you? Yeah, well... take that as read. I do.

Date: 2011-07-20 08:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fidelia84.livejournal.com
I would absolutelly love it to read a John/Miko/Rodney threesome of you. Simply the thought of it makes me droling! Just make it like the clip says: BLOCK THE IDIOTS! I laught my ass of while I saw that.

PS: Yes, I'd stolen that icon.

Date: 2011-07-20 09:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] serpentlady69.livejournal.com
I would love a threesome with them! I usually don't read het, and once I have a pairing I love in a fandom I generally dislike changing it, but your Miko rocks, so I have no doubt it will be great.
As for people that bitch about things, I can never understand why they can't just use the freaking back button!

Date: 2011-07-20 09:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nufaciel.livejournal.com
I guess I'm kind of weird, because when I see a pairing/threesome/moresome I don't like, I don't read it. Don't read something you don't like. What a concept!

As long as I like the characters, and I think they have or would have good chemistry, I'm more than willing to give the pairing/threesome a shot.

I've never gotten why people seem to think they need to bitch about the pairing of a story. I mean, I can understand maybe if the author didn't state it, and it ended up being a squicky pairing (a big reason why I never read surprise!pairing stories). I won't read any story that states the pairing is a surprise, or gives one half of the pairing, with a question mark for the other half.

I've written threesomes before, and so far I've been lucky to not get people bitching at me, but in a story I'm currently working on, one pairing that starts out (the big fandom OTP) actually splits up and one of them goes with another canon character (eventually ending up a threesome that will likely raise a few eyebrows), and the other eventually ends up in a threesome with a canon character and an OC. I fully expect to get hate mail, bitching and moaning about bait and switch, bad pairings, etc., when it comes out, even though the story will have the pairings listed and a lengthy note. If they don't read the header fully, that's their problem, and I plan to tell them quite vocally to fuck off. Because I don't care. As I've developed the storyline, these are the pairings/threesomes that have developed, and they're staying.

Write what you want, what feels right for your stories. The entitled asshats who are gonna bitch are gonna find something to bitch about anyway, so you might as well write what you want.

Date: 2011-07-20 09:40 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] averzierlia.livejournal.com
All I have to say is: If they don't fucking like it they don't have to read it. It is your fucking story. No one but YOU gets to decide how it goes, and if it bothers them, they need to grow the fuck up because they aren't entitled to anything.

and a small request, because I am a whore

Date: 2011-07-20 09:46 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] averzierlia.livejournal.com
Um, would you happen to know where I could find evil!Weasley or evil!Dumbledore fics? I mean, I know you're busy but HP fic is the one thing I can never find for some reason. I read two hp writers: you and [livejournal.com profile] lomonaaeren.

Sorry to bother you >_>

Date: 2011-07-20 10:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skeddy-kat.livejournal.com
I will always give anything you write a shot. Why? I like what you write. Should I happen on something of yours I don't like, I would probably stop reading that particular story, but I wouldn't feel the need to run out and tell you that I had a problem with it. It often seems to me that those who bombard authors with negative opinions are rude and have inflated ideas on the importance of their every thought.

Your stories are a gift. Write them however you want them.

Date: 2011-07-20 10:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shattereternity.livejournal.com
I'm now kinda sad that you didn't pursue ultimate cliche of evil weasleys and Evil Lord Dumbledore as that cliche is one of my favorites XD, LMAO

As for fic, I will read het, slash (fem and male slash), threesome, moresome. All that matters to me is the quality of the story =D (and plot, d**** it, give me PLOT and good characterization and we all smiles) So if you ever get the urge and the inspiration coincides, I'm all for it with pom poms out waiting to cheer you on ;D

Date: 2011-07-20 11:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] terrycene.livejournal.com
Write what makes you happy. As a reader, I have the option to read or not read. I will admit that if I don't like a story or part of the storyline, I don't tell the author as I believe that is my problem, not theirs (I always have the option to stop reading at any time and no one can please everyone all the time). I don't understand people who write to complain about what the author has written. As Grandma always said, "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all".

Sometimes a threesome works for me and sometimes not (usually not). It depends on how well written the story is. While the Anunnake Series worked for me most threesome's don't. It all depends on the writer. Poorly written stories are poorly written stories.

Personally, I like Harry and Draco together and can totally see evil Weasly's and Dumbledor. Don't get me started please as I actually have always felt that way about them from the beginning of the series.
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